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Generating a thoughtful gift idea may take some effort, but nothing is more satisfying than presenting a well-chosen gift that’s right on target, especially for the dreaded person who is "hard to shop for.”
Let's discuss how to identify your recipient's tastes and interests – even the toughest person on your list. Then check the links below to find gift ideas for various categories of recipients and interests.
Let's start with three introductory tips:
Tip #1: First of all, don’t stress out too much looking for an unusual, uncommon, or unique gift idea. It’s not about being “different!” The truly thoughtful gift ideas are simply those that your recipient genuinely wants and likes.
Tip #2: Choosing the right gift is not necessarily about the occasion. If you have a thoughtful gift idea for Dad, he will love it on his birthday, or for Christmas or Father's Day. Sometimes, of course, the occasion does matter – an exquisite ornament that your cousin loves at Christmas may not be so suitable as a graduation gift.
Tip #3 (Important): Please don’t wait until the last minute! Find a way that works for you to remind yourself of your upcoming gift occasion. Leave plenty of time to do some research so you can match a thoughtful gift idea to your recipient's individual interests.
Coming up with thoughtful gift ideas means focusing on your recipient as an individual to determine what sort of gift will prove interesting and welcome.
Step 1: Start Noticing Things
Pay attention to your recipient’s wardrobe and notice the styles and colors frequently worn. Even if clothing is the last thing you’d consider giving, it gives a clue about the person’s tastes – conservative or bold, trendy or traditional. A similarly styled accessory can be a thoughtful gift idea.
Look around your recipient’s house, apartment, room or office. Notice the magazines, books and music, and the furnishings. See what's hanging on the walls, any collections on display, or perhaps some hobby or sports equipment tucked in a corner.
What’s going on in the photos on the desk? Does your recipient have pets? Clues to thoughtful gift ideas are waiting for you to notice them!
Check out online gift registries and wish lists. In
can gather great gift ideas from a variety of stores covering just about every sort of gift. You can search for participants by name or email address. If your recipient does not have an online wish list, you might invite him or her to create one. Listen for remarks about what your recipient admires or dislikes, hopes to own or to do someday, and does for fun on weekends or vacations. Listen for comments about news stories, local events, and favorite songs, movies, or TV shows. Anything you see or hear can spark a thoughtful gift idea…if you pay attention!
Step 2: Ask Subtle Questions
You may not often visit your recipient’s home or spend much leisure time together, but you can steer your conversations to reveal thoughtful gift ideas. To keep it subtle, ask questions that are general but will elicit specific clues.
For example, ask what your recipient did for fun over the weekend, or what they’d do if they won the lottery. Prime the pump by relating your weekend fun, or how you’d spend some extra cash. Ask what they think of the latest fad or style. Bring up gifts by asking for advice about a present for someone else. The more you can get people talking, the more likely they'll reveal thoughtful gift ideas.
Step 3: Enlist a Double Agent
No matter how well you know your recipient, you still might need some inside information. I’m familiar with my son Mark’s tastes, interests and sense of 
humor, and many activities he enjoys. But Mark lives overseas, and who knows which activities he gets to pursue there? I don’t know everything he owns or what he might receive from others. To confirm my thoughtful gift ideas for Mark, I need to get some clues from his wife.
A close friend, family member or housemate can be a fine double agent, whether your recipient is someone you don’t know really well, or a loved one who lives far away, or someone who’s just plain hard to shop for. Ask for suggestions. If you already have a gift idea, run it past your informer to see if it really would be a well-chosen gift.
It’s especially wise to get up-to-date information about gifts for kids. Younger ones grow fast and change a lot in a year, and teen tastes may change quickly with fads and 
fashions. Your gift will be a flop if it’s something the child has grown beyond, or that went out of style six months ago – no matter how thoughtful a gift idea it would have been last year.
If your double agent can’t supply any concrete suggestions, you can still find out the activities your recipient has been pursuing lately, and whether he or she already has a particular item. Ask about hints being dropped that would make great gift ideas. Find out where your recipient likes to shop, to add insight into current tastes and interests.
Step 4: Make a Note of It
Finally, write down your ideas! If you haven’t waited until the last minute – and we hope you’ve given yourself time for this research – it would be a shame to 
forget your great gift idea before you get around to procuring the gift. Make a note while you’re thinking about it! If you’ve come up with several thoughtful gift ideas in the process, good for you! You’ll be ready for the next occasion too!
OK! Now that you have your recipient figured out, here are gift suggestions that are well suited for various categories of people and their interests.
Gift for a Senior Citizen: Make Life Fun, Make Life Easy! - The well-chosen gift for a senior citizen is fun to own, to use, or to do. PS: When simple things become harder, it's fun just to be able to do them again!
Teacher Appreciation Gift Ideas (That Teachers Will Appreciate) - Creative teacher appreciation gift ideas go beyond mugs and apples. Here are useful and thoughtful gift ideas that teachers will treasure.
The Person Who Has Everything - Alternative gift ideas for the person who has everything; smart and exciting gift ideas to please, whatever their interests or your budget.
Family Gift Ideas They'll ALL Enjoy – Family gift ideas that appeal to all ages and enhance family quality time. Fun family gifts for indoors, outdoors, and going places!
Gift Ideas for Graduates - from Preschool through high school and college, and on to older adult graduates, you will find graduation gift ideas they'll use and treasure.
Gift for a Gardener - Find a gift your gardener can use no matter what the season! Thoughtful gift ideas to please green-thumb recipients all year round.
Charity Gifts Give Twice - Honor a special person when the invitation says "no gifts please." But select a charity gift carefully and present it well.
If you have questions, comments or suggestions, we’d love to hear them. Let us know what category of person you'd like thoughtful gift ideas for! We won't divulge your email address to anyone, for any reason. Promise!
Best wishes,Marjorie
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